Insecurity : Fear and Failure

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Behind Every Insecurity is a Story Waiting to Told and here Some one's 


Many people commonly experience insecurity at some point in their lives instead of confronting it, they often choose to hide behind it. The silent struggles shape their actions, limits their potential and dims their confidence. 

FEAR AND FAILURE 

           The fear they hold them back from   reaching their potential. when someone feels insecure about they appear or how others perceive  them, it can trigger intense fear or worry in social  situation.

why do they experience these kind of emotions? is it all created by themselves ? 

No, may be a part of it is created by them , but 99% of the insecurities are caused by society. 

How disgusting this is! we don't see their talents, kindness, character, or creativity. We only see their appearance. 

How embarrassing this is ? Humans naturally make quick judgement based on what they see first. Appearance is immediate and obvious, while talent usually takes time to discover.     


 Insecurity for girls 


Absolutely, Insecurities can deeply affect girls, especially as they grow up in a world fulfilled with pressure to look, act or live a certain way.  Insecurities can develop from,
      
     Emotional neglect from society, love, friends 
     Past experience like bullying, harassment and criticism 
     Appearance, lack of confident 
     Comparison to others
          
                          

                            "A girl's worth is never measured by doubts she feels, 
                               but by the strength she shows despite them"


Why they want to overcome from their insecurities? Why not peoples stop judging them? 
if the people stop judging them and the insecurities will fade out. 
 
I just conclude with my perspective that,
                                                                Be yourself , no one will came to live with you . Do what you love, Speak what you wish, Facts over feelings.
 

                                                                         - Siba 

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